Sunday, July 11, 2010

Love

Is a funny thing,it does many things to you,changes you in some way,a good way and also a bad way.Music and Lyrics is just like love,Music is the melody,the first thing you hear,the first impression of someone,the physical attraction.Lyrics is the words,the story of one's life,the unseen things that we slowly learn,learn about each other's life,the story they have to tell,past,present and future,as we start a relationship.The various stages of love to me are:
Courtship
- the sweetest stage,both talk lot,really look forward to seeing each other.Look forward to each other's messages and calls.There are lots of things to talk about,literally everything and anything can be talked about.Both talk or sms each other almost everyday,and tell each other the littlest of things that is happening,happened or going to happen in their life,from going to the supermarket later,there's a blackout,going out with friends or just plain silly little things like guess where I am now or just a simple Hi.
Beginning
- still quite sweet a stage,both will start to inform each other about everything they do form eating breakfast,lunch and dinner to just taking a nap.Both will start to know more about each other,their life is somehow slowly intertwined,both will try to involve each other in their lives. The using of sweet nicknames also starts so does the physical things such as hugs,kisses and holding of hands.
Middle/Stable
- by this stage,both will have already seen alot of each other's life,met some of their friends, and know of their temperaments. Start to know and can tell when they are happy,sad,worried,emo just by looking at the way they type their messages.There also might be small little arguments as each will have probably discovered their differences and start to tolerate and change to suit their partners.Both would probably trust each other more.
End/Break up
- are always selfish,unless mutually agreed. There could be a flurry of reasons but only acceptable to the person who initiated it or when both mutually agreed. The one that did not agree to it would be devastated,no matter how many break ups that they have been through,how used to breaking up a person is,it is always painful,in my opinion at least. Days would be spent missing that special person,nights would be terribly cold and lonely,some cry themselves to sleep, some did not sleep. Hallucinations start messing their minds, false hopes of reconciliation, memories of times spent together playing back over and over, words spoken during the break up,sweet promises to each other,sweet dialogues,read messages over and over,looking at pictures of both together,hoping the other half will realize breaking up is a mistake. They always say time heals all wounds, but they always forget there will always be a scar and time takes a real long course to do it.
Reconciliation
- only possible if the feeling is still there and mutual, and if both believe they sill do love each other.
Well,that's only my view. It differs from person to person. Maybe love is not really like what I see it as..but I've only experienced it one time,maybe the next will tell a different story.

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